Nollywood actress, Angela Okorie shares her opinion on building a man from ground to top and the regrets that might crawl in at the end.
According to the mother of one, building a man is good but it should not be done at the detriment of building one’s self.
In quite a lengthy post, Angela took to Instagram to share her point of view.
“I don’t like it when people say You have to build a man from ground to the top. Building a man is not really the problem but forgetting ur self while building him is the problem, you must always understand that u also have some growth to do too
Oh yes u can Support him, You can Encourage him, But don’t you ever forget that u are the first priority. You have a lot of work to do on ur self. Focusing on him than your self is so wrong. Now Focus on the woman u planned to become, If you continue to focus on him alone. You will be broken and might regret it later Cos u we’re busy building some1 else
For Everyone story that was A success, I can show you a thousand more Where there was a damage ,hurt, And disappointment . Some men will ask their wives not to work, That he will provide everything. When things start getting bad, He will not understand it’s a phase That will pass. He will turn around and say the woman is a witch that made him broke forgetting he practically asked her not to work, no supporting hand, Blaming her for being broke, Women don’t ever agree to that
Women are help mate we know, But that Doesn’t mean she should kill ur self, Help him grow but don’t forget u are the first priority. U should be able to do some things on ur own too without u calling your sweetheart all the time for help. You can build an empire together. If u both are growing I don’t know who needs to hear this .
Cheers to the weekend”.